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The Honey Jar

Also called sweetening jar, sugar jar, sweetening spell

A small jar of honey, sugar or syrup holding a written name, worked with candles over days or weeks so that a person or situation turns sweet toward you. In Hoodoo it is used for love and also for bosses, judges and family peace.

TraditionAfrican American Hoodoo (rootwork, conjure)
RegionSouthern United States
Era19th century to present; the jar-and-candle form became standard in the 20th century
Moon☽ Waxing moon
DayFriday · Venus
ElementWater
Difficulty●●○ Moderate
Time20 minutes to set, then a short candle every few days

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The working

  1. Tear a small square of brown paper by hand. Write the name of the person you want to be sweeter toward you three times, then turn the paper and write your own name across it so the names cross.
  2. Write your wish in one plain sentence around the names without lifting the pencil if you can, such as a kind word or a calmer talk between you.
  3. Fold the paper toward you once, turn it and fold toward you again, so it is drawn in your direction.
  4. Open the jar, eat a spoonful of the honey yourself while saying 'As this honey is sweet to me, so you will be sweet to me', then push the folded paper down into the jar with any herbs you chose.
  5. Close the lid tightly. Set the candle on the lid by warming its base and pressing it down, light it, and let it burn while you speak your wish.
  6. Repeat with a fresh candle on Fridays or every few days. Keep the jar somewhere private and warm, and stop when the relationship is sweet or the work is done.
  7. When finished, keep the jar, or bury it in your yard or under a flowering bush.

Take care: Never leave a candle burning on a jar unattended; glass can crack from heat, so use small candles and a heatproof dish under the jar. Work for kindness and peace, not to override another person's will.

Versions across time and place

i

Molasses ring on a white plate

Older Southern Hoodoo · 19th century

Before jars became common, a white candle loaded with a hair from the person was fixed to a white plate and ringed with molasses, honey or sugar. The candle led the work and the sweetener followed. When the candle was done the plate was washed clean.

Uses: white candle, white plate, molasses or sugar

Recorded in: catherine yronwode, 'Honey Jar Spells', Lucky Mojo Curio Co.
ii

The kitchen sugar bowl

Household Hoodoo · early to mid 20th century

No candle at all. A prayed-over vanilla bean or a tiny name paper is set at the bottom of the family sugar bowl, and everyone who sweetens their coffee or tea from it is sweetened toward the worker.

Uses: sugar bowl, vanilla bean or name paper

Recorded in: catherine yronwode, 'Honey Jar Spells', Lucky Mojo Curio Co.
iii

Social-media honey jar

Online witchcraft and modern Hoodoo revival · 2010s to 2020s

The honey jar spread far beyond Black Southern communities through blogs, TikTok and Etsy. Modern versions often add crystals and herb blends and are used as much for self-love and confidence as for a named partner.

Uses: honey, rose quartz, dried roses

Recorded in: Autostraddle, 'Queer Sex Coven: Honey Jar Spells'

History

Sweetening magic is a core idea in African American Hoodoo: what you treat sweetly, and keep in something sweet, will be kind to you. Between 1936 and 1940 the folklorist Harry Middleton Hyatt recorded more than 1,600 informants across the South, published in five volumes as Hoodoo-Conjuration-Witchcraft-Rootwork (1970 to 1978). Those interviews preserve thousands of spells, many built from kitchen goods like sugar, syrup and honey.

The jar-with-a-candle-on-top form now sold as the honey jar is a hybrid that settled in the 20th century, joining a candle spell to the older sweetening jar or bowl. catherine yronwode of Lucky Mojo, who has written widely on the practice, points out that sugar, sorghum and molasses were used long before honey became the fashionable choice. Hoodoo is an open folk tradition, but it grew from Black Southern life, and its history deserves credit when the jar is used.

Sources

  1. Honey Jar Spells · catherine yronwode
  2. Hoodoo-Conjuration-Witchcraft-Rootwork · Harry Middleton Hyatt, 1970-1978
  3. Hoodoo (spirituality) · Wikipedia

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