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Reconciliation Sugar Bowl

Also called sweetening spell for family, peace in the home sugar bowl, make-up spell

A Hoodoo-style sweetening for patching things up with family or friends who are also open to it. A small paper with your shared wish rests in a sugar bowl that everyone uses, so each spoonful softens things a little.

TraditionAfrican American Hoodoo (household sweetening)
RegionSouthern United States
Eraearly 20th century to present
Moon☽ Waxing moon
DayFriday · Venus
ElementWater
Difficulty●○○ Simple
Time15 minutes, then ongoing

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The working

  1. Make sure the other person also wants to mend things, even if they have only said so in small ways. This spell sweetens a willing reconciliation; it does not force one.
  2. On the paper write a wish for the relationship, not commands to a person, for example 'Peace and kind words between us again.'
  3. Fold the paper toward you three times, tucking in the vanilla or lavender if using it. Wrap it in a scrap of plastic wrap so it stays clean.
  4. Place it in the bottom of the sugar bowl and pour the sugar over it, saying 'As this is sweet, let us be sweet to each other.'
  5. Use the bowl as usual. When you sweeten a drink for the other person, stir it clockwise and think of a kind memory you share.
  6. Pair the spell with an action: an honest apology, a call, or a meal together. When peace returns, compost the paper and thank the bowl.

Take care: Keep the paper wrapped so it cannot be eaten, and do not add anything to sugar that guests would not expect, such as essential oils. Never use sweetening to keep someone in a situation that is unsafe for them or you.

Versions across time and place

i

The family sugar bowl

Household Hoodoo · early to mid 20th century

Lucky Mojo describes working a sweetening spell in an ordinary sugar bowl, with granular sugar or cubes. Everyone who sweetens tea or coffee from it is sweetened toward the household, which makes it a favoured spell for family peace.

Uses: sugar bowl, sugar

Recorded in: catherine yronwode, 'Honey Jar Spells', Lucky Mojo Curio Co.
ii

Honey jar with both names

Hoodoo · 20th century to present

The more common form puts a name paper in honey or syrup with a candle burned on the lid over days. For reconciliation, many modern workers write both names crossed together and work it only with the other person's knowledge or as a general peace jar.

Uses: honey, jar, candle

Recorded in: catherine yronwode, 'Honey Jar Spells', Lucky Mojo Curio Co.

History

Sweetening magic runs through African American Hoodoo: what is kept in something sweet becomes sweet to you. Harry Middleton Hyatt's interviews with more than 1,600 Southern informants between 1936 and 1940, published as 'Hoodoo-Conjuration-Witchcraft-Rootwork' (1970 to 1978), record many spells made from kitchen sugar, syrup and honey. The sugar bowl version keeps the work hidden in plain sight on the family table.

catherine yronwode of the Lucky Mojo Curio Company, who has written widely on the tradition, lists sugar bowls alongside jars, onions and apples as containers for sweetening work, and notes the sugar-bowl variation for household harmony. Hoodoo is an open folk practice, but it grew out of Black Southern life, and that history should be credited when you use it.

Sources

  1. Honey Jar Spells · catherine yronwode, Lucky Mojo Curio Co.
  2. Hoodoo-Conjuration-Witchcraft-Rootwork · Harry Middleton Hyatt, 1970-1978
  3. Hoodoo (spirituality) · Wikipedia

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