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Pulling the Wishbone

Also called merrythought, lucky break, furcula wish

Two people each hold one arm of a dried bird's wishbone, make a silent wish and pull; whoever gets the larger piece is said to have their wish granted. It is best known from the American Thanksgiving turkey.

TraditionEuropean and American household custom
RegionEngland, North America
EraRecorded in England by the 1600s; popular origin stories reach back to Rome
Moon◐ Any moon
DayThursday · Jupiter
ElementAir
Difficulty●○○ Simple
TimeThree days drying, then a moment to pull

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The working

  1. After the meal, find the V-shaped bone at the front of the breast and ease it free. Rinse off any meat.
  2. Set it on a dry windowsill or shelf for about three days until it is brittle. A fresh, bendy bone just stretches.
  3. Choose a partner. Each of you hooks a little finger, or finger and thumb, around one arm of the bone.
  4. Both make a silent wish. Do not say it aloud, or the luck is said to leave it.
  5. Pull steadily on the count of three. Whoever ends up with the larger piece, holding the joined top, gets their wish.
  6. Keep your piece in a kitchen drawer for the year, or put it in the compost or rubbish once the wish is made.

Take care: Let the bone dry fully; snapped poultry bones can be sharp, so keep the pieces away from dogs and small children.

Versions across time and place

i

The stroked bone

Popular account of Etruscan Italy · Claimed for the 1st millennium BC

In this widely repeated story the Etruscans dried a hen's wishbone in the sun and people stroked it, unbroken, while making a wish. The Romans are then said to have started snapping it because there were not enough bones to go round. Neither claim has a clear ancient source, so treat this as a legend about the custom rather than its documented start.

Uses: dried wishbone, left whole

Recorded in: Modern Farmer, 'What's the Story, Wishbone?' (2014), retelling a popular account
ii

The merrythought and marriage

English household custom · 17th century onward

In England the bone was called the merrythought, and pulling it was tied to marriage as much as wishes. The one who got the longer piece was said to marry first. The bone usually came from a goose or chicken at a feast.

Uses: goose or chicken wishbone

Recorded in: Furcula and wishbone entries; English name 'merrythought'
iii

Plastic and pretzel wishbones

American Thanksgiving · 21st century

Since one turkey has only one wishbone, families now buy plastic replicas that snap like the real thing, or bake a V of pretzel dough. It lets everyone at the table pull, and suits vegetarians.

Uses: replica or pretzel wishbone

Recorded in: Commercial 'Lucky Break' and similar replica wishbones

History

The wishbone is the furcula, the fused collarbones of a bird. The usual story says the Etruscans saw birds as oracles and wished on dried hen bones, and that the Romans turned it into a tug-of-war. These tales appear in many popular articles but trace back to no clear ancient text, so they are best called legend. What is documented is the English name merrythought, in use by the 17th century, and the custom of two people breaking it with the longer piece foretelling an early marriage.

English settlers brought the merrythought to North America, where the plentiful wild turkey made it a fixture of the autumn table. By the 19th century the word wishbone had largely replaced merrythought in America, and the phrase 'lucky break' is often linked to the custom, though that link is folk etymology. Today it is mostly a Thanksgiving ritual, and fossil finds have shown that some dinosaurs had a furcula too.

Sources

  1. What's the Story, Wishbone? · Modern Farmer, 2014
  2. Wishbones and Dinosaurs · Audubon / BirdNote
  3. Furcula · Wikipedia contributors, 2026

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