Also called bay leaves under the pillow, St Valentine's Eve dream charm
On the night before St Valentine's Day, five bay leaves are pinned to the pillow so you will dream of your sweetheart. It was recorded in a 1755 London magazine, along with an egg-and-salt charm and a paper-in-clay lottery for valentines.
TraditionEnglish Georgian love divination
RegionEngland
Era18th century
Moon◐ Any moon
DayVenus
ElementAir
Difficulty●○○ Simple
Time10 minutes before bed, 13 February
Tonight's moon is read when the page loads.
The working
On the evening of 13 February, write on the paper the qualities you most want in a partner. If you already have a willing partner, write your hope for the year together instead.
Pin one bay leaf to each corner of your pillowcase and the fifth in the middle, as the 1755 account describes.
Lie down and say quietly: 'Valentine, show me the one who is good for me.'
Go to sleep without further talk.
On waking, write down whatever you remember of your dreams before you speak to anyone.
For the old rule, keep your eyes closed or stay in until someone you are glad to see arrives, since the first person you meet was said to be your valentine. Unpin the leaves and keep them in a drawer for the year.
Take care: Use real bay laurel; some plants sold as 'bay' are not culinary. Do not eat a salt-filled egg or eggshell. Keep pins secured so they cannot scratch you in your sleep.
Versions across time and place
i
The salted egg
English Georgian · 1755
A hard-boiled egg had its yolk replaced with salt and was eaten shell and all at bedtime, without speaking or drinking afterward, to bring the same dream as the bay leaves. It is recorded here as history; eating shells and that much salt is not advised.
Uses: egg, salt
Recorded in: 'Arabella Whimsey' letter, The Connoisseur (1755)
ii
Names rolled in clay
English Georgian · 1755
Young women wrote their admirers' names on slips, rolled each in clay and dropped them in water. The first to float free named the valentine. A safer modern version uses paper wrapped in a little flour dough in a bowl of water.
Uses: paper, clay
Recorded in: 'Arabella Whimsey' letter, The Connoisseur (1755)
iii
Eyes shut till noon
English Georgian · 1755
The writer lay in bed with her eyes closed all morning so that the first man she saw would be her chosen sweetheart, Mr Blossom, rather than a stranger.
Recorded in: 'Arabella Whimsey' letter, The Connoisseur (1755)
History
The best record comes from 'The Connoisseur', a London periodical written by 'Mr Town'. A letter dated 17 February 1755, signed Arabella Whimsey and probably written by John Duncombe, describes the night before Valentine's Day: five bay leaves pinned to the pillow, a salted egg eaten in silence, names rolled in clay and dropped in water, and lying with eyes shut until her chosen man came to the house. The letter is playful, but it describes customs its readers clearly knew.
Bay laurel was linked to Apollo and prophecy in Classical tradition, which may explain its place in dream charms. Valentine's Eve love divination was widespread in England and was reprinted in British and American newspapers well into the 19th century. Writing qualities rather than a name is a modern adjustment for a charm that once simply asked, 'who will it be?'